.Plot is character. Forget pschycology. Forget the inside of men’s heads. Judge them by their actions. We’ve all been there, a breakup is never fun regardless if you made the decision or not. Of course it sucks to be dumped, but it’s also hard to be the one making the decision. Especially when you wish … More .it’s not rocket science.
#metoo Most of us can relate to the #metoo movement. Women are the largest victim for sexual harassment and sexual assault althoug it happens to men as well, regardless the sex of the victim it’s never okey! I will focus on one type of sexual harassment that is directed mostly towards women – street harassment. … More .it’s not a compliment.
Inspired from one of my first blog posts “it’s my boobs”. “No, I’m not wearing a bra”. I’m tired of people thinking that they have a say regarding the fact if I wear a bra or not. You don’t. Reagardless if you like it or not it’s none of your business. Keep your opinion to … More .it’s still my boobs.
.avoiding a negative emotion buys you short term gain at the price of long term pain. There are so many situations in life where we should remember that it’s okey to not be okey. One of the main causes of many psychological problems is the habit of emotional avoidance. This may seem like a surprise, … More .it’s okey.
The biggest mistake you can make is removing jewels from your crown, to make it easier for a man to carry. “It’s me not you”, a classic line. Many times we should be honest for the sake of ourselves but also for the sake of the other person who actually might need to hear… “It’s … More .it’s you – not me.
.be sure to taste your words before you spit them out. .when someone keeps making the same mistake over and over again, it’s no longer a mistake. It’s a habit. It’s easy to speak before you think. Unfortunately when you said something you can’t “unsay” it and whatever hurt you brought onto another person it … More .it’s not a mistake.
.I’m not what you think I am, YOU are what you think I am. .gas lighting. I’ve come to realize how incredibly interesting this phenomenon is. Where a listener comes to believe something because it has been repeated so often that you begin to believe it, even if you know deep down that it isn’t … More .it’s gas lighting.
.by far the best documentary I’ve ever seen – perfect for everone to watch, happy international women’s day. “Right down next to where we hurt the most is our medicine. Vulnerability is the key to healing. ” Just came across The work which is a documentary set inside a single room in Folsom Prison, where we … More .it’s the work.
.it´s time for another lovely concert in Hamburg. This amazing design is made by my dear friend René Daniel. Photo by wonderful Julian Freyberg and makeup&hair by the fabulous Hoky Siswan. To Be Told – A New Day A concert that started back a few years ago together with the talented pianist and musical director … More .it’s time again.
.all that matters now. “There are days when I feel so afraid I can hardly remember to breathe. When reality crashes in wave after wave, pulling me further beneath. So what’s the point in planning for a future, if it all can be stolen away’ It’s all I can do to hold on and survive, … More .it’s neverland.