.avoiding a negative emotion buys you short term gain at the price of long term pain. There are so many situations in life where we should remember that it’s okey to not be okey. One of the main causes of many psychological problems is the habit of emotional avoidance. This may seem like a surprise, … More .it’s okey.
The biggest mistake you can make is removing jewels from your crown, to make it easier for a man to carry. “It’s me not you”, a classic line. Many times we should be honest for the sake of ourselves but also for the sake of the other person who actually might need to hear… “It’s … More .it’s you – not me.
.be sure to taste your words before you spit them out. .when someone keeps making the same mistake over and over again, it’s no longer a mistake. It’s a habit. It’s easy to speak before you think. Unfortunately when you said something you can’t “unsay” it and whatever hurt you brought onto another person it … More .it’s not a mistake.
.I’m not what you think I am, YOU are what you think I am. .gas lighting. I’ve come to realize how incredibly interesting this phenomenon is. Where a listener comes to believe something because it has been repeated so often that you begin to believe it, even if you know deep down that it isn’t … More .it’s gas lighting.
.by far the best documentary I’ve ever seen – perfect for everone to watch, happy international women’s day. “Right down next to where we hurt the most is our medicine. Vulnerability is the key to healing. ” Just came across The work which is a documentary set inside a single room in Folsom Prison, where we … More .it’s the work.
.it´s time for another lovely concert in Hamburg. This amazing design is made by my dear friend René Daniel. Photo by wonderful Julian Freyberg and makeup&hair by the fabulous Hoky Siswan. To Be Told – A New Day A concert that started back a few years ago together with the talented pianist and musical director … More .it’s time again.
.all that matters now. “There are days when I feel so afraid I can hardly remember to breathe. When reality crashes in wave after wave, pulling me further beneath. So what’s the point in planning for a future, if it all can be stolen away’ It’s all I can do to hold on and survive, … More .it’s neverland.
.it’s not age that makes us brave. “In psychology, maturity is the ability to respond to the environment in an appropriate manner. This response is generally learned rather than instinctive. Maturity also encompasses being aware of the correct time and place to behave and knowing when to act, according to the circumstances and the culture of the society one lives in. Adult development and maturity … More .it’s maturity.
￼.look a new day has begun.￼ After a year in the US working as Grizabella in Andrew LLoyd Webbers Broadway musical CATS on board on the largest ship in the world – Oasis of the Seas, Royal Caribbean, I am now ready for vacation. It’s been a true honor, I say goodbye to Grizabella for … More .it’s a new day.
.when we love, we always strive to become better than we are. “…the world we live in will be either better or worse, depending on wheter we become better or worse.” I wont write about politics, because there are others that can do that much better then me. But I want to acknowledge the … More .it’s unity.